Who would ever have imagined that grocery shopping could be such a stressful experience? Or that there would be a dozen articles published with conflicting advice about how to do it?
Go now, quick, before there are more cases!
Wait as long as you possibly can.
Wear a mask, don’t wear a mask.
Run in, grab a few things, make a dash for the exit. Stock up with enough to last you for an age.
Disinfect your groceries, don’t disinfect your groceries.
Just making my list this morning was harrowing. Putting it all in order so that I can make a direct run down every aisle, not retracing my steps, not pondering brands or quantity, avoiding other humans at all costs. How fast can I select a mango? Will there even be mangos? If there aren’t mangos, should I go for pineapple or oranges? Will there even be pineapples or oranges?
And marshmallows. Where do they keep the marshmallows? I never buy marshmallows. Do I really need them? My neighbor and I had a fire pit the other night, and we roasted the rock-hard ones she found in the back of her pantry. Actually, we had two separate fire pits, eight feet apart so neither one of us would be the cause of the other’s death.

Strange Times, Indeed
The last time I went grocery shopping, I stood in front of the honey jars and cried. I couldn’t decide which kind to buy, and I was scared. I was taking too long. Every other shopper looked like a landmine. A safe and familiar place had become a dangerous battleground.
Today I’m especially nervous because I hadn’t planned to go, so I’m not mentally prepared. Though some of my neighbors are shopping every few days, it’s been two-plus weeks for me, and I could easily make it another week. But my prescription has run out, so I’ve got to enter the combat zone anyway. May as well suck it up and do this thing.
I’m going to wear a mask, even though it’ll make me feel silly. Plus they seem to have become controversial, as has everything since the ascension of the Divider in Chief. I don’t want to get into the politics of masks here, I’ll just note that it’s criminally obscene that our government cannot equip our hospitals — at least not if a particular governor isn’t bowing down to the man who fancies himself King of America.
Right now, I cannot even think about that man’s incompetence and purposeful viciousness. I need all my energy to confront the produce aisle.
Jun 18, 2020 @ 18:16:28
Groceries are the worst cause it’s anything goes. The good news, most stores strictly enforce mask, but many remove the mask as soon as the exit like COVID does not exist outdoors. Thanks for sharing this post, people need to wake up, so as our govt. leaders .
Apr 06, 2020 @ 20:43:37
This is wonderful! 5*****
And your last line made me laugh out loud.
They say, “There’s no crying in baseball…” Is it appropriate to cry in a grocery store??? Prob not. They’d think you are leaking.
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I really like your writing. Let’s trade stories.
There’s one called Covid 19 on my blog
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Apr 06, 2020 @ 20:51:43
Thanks, Janet! Sounds good, I’ll come visit. You can follow my blog by clicking the follow button on the site. I don’t believe I can add you from my end. Look forward to being on the travel/writing journey with you!
Apr 03, 2020 @ 16:48:18
Apr 01, 2020 @ 21:17:10
Wear disposable gloves too! 💜
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Apr 01, 2020 @ 22:06:40
I would if I had them. But I won’t touch my face with a mask on.
Apr 01, 2020 @ 15:48:29
For the life of me I cannot understand people’s disdain for others who decide to take a measure of protection by wearing a mask. Like the old adage says, to each their own. It’s not silly at all. If anything, it makes logical sense for one to wrap themselves in as much self preservation gear as reasonable. Some wrap themselves in mega yachts and escape to the Grenadines, others wear masks, or hazmat suits if you really want to go the extra step on a budget. Melanie, you go and do what makes you feel safe and secure. If you need, I will be more than happy to go shop for you. I go to the co-op a few times a week. Seriously, let me know.
Apr 01, 2020 @ 19:42:14
You are so sweet! I did it, mask and all – I sure wasn’t the only one. I hope I don’t have to go back for a month! Thank you!
Apr 01, 2020 @ 11:33:06
It’s amazing how we have the same experiences in spite of living on opposite sides of Earth. In Romania most people wear masks at the grocery store (at least in my area), so it became something usual … the first time I wore a mask felt extremely weird.
Fortunately, we manage to get most of our supplies via online shopping, so we don’t even go to the grocery store. It takes 2-3 weeks to receive the orders, so we need to plan carefully.
Sending lots of good thoughts from here!
Apr 01, 2020 @ 13:34:08
That IS amazing. A lot of stores are doing online delivery, and it takes a few days to get the groceries. I haven’t tried that yet. Funny thing, I got up all my nerve and went out and my car wouldn’t start!! Always something! Please stay safe and well. Thanks for visiting.
Apr 01, 2020 @ 10:58:05
I have had the same experience going to the grocery store. Awful. I end up holding my breath a lot of the time. Some people wear masks and some don’t. I also have to shut off thoughts of the divider in chief. We all need to decrease stress to help our immune systems, right? Grr.
Apr 01, 2020 @ 11:02:57
And of course holding your breath increases stress, too! I do that when I walk by people on the sidewalk, even stepping aside 6 ft. Yes, we can only pray he is gone in January 2021 and that the death toll is not too high in the meantime. Be well.
Apr 01, 2020 @ 14:39:32
Good point. Stress from just about everything we do or have to do takes a toll. Holding my breath until November probably won’t help either. Take care.