I want to write about Charlottesville. About watching my Twitter feed in horror as scene after scene scrolled by — swastikas, confederate flags, t-shirts emblazoned with Hitler slogans, torches of hate surrounding a church full of peaceful praying people, a black boy being beaten with poles, and finally the car — the car crashing into living, breathing, beautiful human beings.
I want to say Heather Heyer’s name.
But I can’t seem to gather the words.
I want to write about how I wonder if even just a few trump voters are thinking, “Oops.”
If they might see the teensiest connection between the largest gathering of white supremacists in modern history and the election of a man who encouraged his supporters to commit violence and pledged to pay their legal bills, expressed regret that he couldn’t punch a protester in the face, yearned for the good old days when people were carried out on stretchers, and just the other day advised the police to rough up people in their custody.
But there simply aren’t words.
I want to write about the nameless fear and deep sickness and vast emptiness that must be devouring those raging white men who chant “We will not be replaced.” What is that? Whatever happens with healthcare, can we at least get these people some therapy?
I want to write about how I smirked at the images of the little boys with their tiki-torches and the fact that the Tiki-Torch company actually had to disavow nazism — I mean, it’s all so ridiculous — but then I remembered how much evil a bunch of “boys” with a simple loop of rope can do.
There aren’t words.
I want to write about the feeling of solidarity at the rally yesterday, thousands and thousands of us marching purposefully, signs aloft, our chants booming off the hulking federal buildings that line the roads in the nation’s capitol and then rising to a thunderous crescendo of “SHAME, SHAME, SHAME, SHAME” as we passed the trump hotel.
And my further feelings of love and gratitude when I got home and found dozens of Twitter photos of demonstrations and vigils in Philly, New York, Boston, Baltimore, Las Vegas, Orlando, Atlanta, Durham, Vancouver . . . and virtually all of my Facebook friends expressing grief, determination, love, and commitment to fighting for justice in whatever ways they can.
My friends didn’t post pictures of their cats and appetizers this weekend.
But all of these feelings are too much. There aren’t the words.
So although I want to write about Charlottesville but am unable, I will instead leave you with a quote from Anne Frank, which I must believe or I would perish.
“In spite of everything I still believe that people are really good at heart.”
Aug 22, 2017 @ 20:40:43
Hey, Melanie! Do you remember me from your old job in the 90s? I was a volunteer. I just came across your blog and look forward to reading more of it! Joanne
Aug 22, 2017 @ 21:00:52
Hey, how cool! Sure – great to hear from you. Are you still active w/ the Club?
Aug 14, 2017 @ 15:15:56
Mel, you chose perfectly fine words. thank you.
Aug 14, 2017 @ 15:51:41
So glad to be “in this together.” WONDERFUL to see you yesterday.
Aug 14, 2017 @ 14:34:21
I’m with Anne! It only takes a relatively small handful of hate mongers to distort the positive current that flows through our world. If it was more prevalent then we wouldn’t even notice. Thank God we do!
Aug 14, 2017 @ 14:40:37
Nice way to think of it. An aberration.
Aug 14, 2017 @ 14:05:51
It is hard to find the words to say. I had to take a few days before I posted a response on my blog, but it still does not seem sufficient. I want to do Heather and everyone else that’s hurting justice.
Aug 14, 2017 @ 14:14:37
My problem is balancing the anger and the hurt. I don’t want to lash out and rage, but if I can’t find an outlet for that, I will fall into depression. The underlying sadness for my country and the world is huge. I’ll come check your blog out, too.
Aug 14, 2017 @ 14:16:09
Melanie, I understand completely. It hurts me so much to see this, especially just 8 years after I felt so much hope. I feel like we are taking steps backwards.