HEADED TO HELL WITH THE HOMOSEXUALS
A nice Christian lady just told me I was going to hell, apparently accompanied by many of my friends. “What kind of person are you?” she squawked. (Even over the anonymous internet, I could tell she was squawking.)
What set her off was my saying that I love my gay friends and family just the way they are, and so does God.
I’m headed to hell, she says, for “condemning the homosexuals to eternal death by allowing them to live in their sin.” (I wonder how many she has “saved” from this fate with her loving and compassionate spirit?)
I told her I hoped that God would bless her with a gay loved one who would have the courage to withstand her scorn and perhaps help her to see the Divine in every single person.
She assured me that she never scorned anyone and followed that up by telling me I was a liar and a fraud and should be ashamed of myself.
“Happy Housewife” (her online name) told me that I am directly contradicting the teachings of Christ, who repeatedly said that homosexuals will never see heaven. I pointed out to her several times that no, actually, Jesus never said word one about homosexuality. She said what about Leviticus, and I said that, um, Leviticus was written well before Christ’s birth, and anyway if she cared to look into the cultural context and etymology of the verse, it clearly refers to temple prostitutes and sex slaves, not to two gay people sharing a loving relationship.
She said she didn’t want to hear any of my “cultural crap,” that she had heard enough of my “homosexual lies.”
I blocked her, lest I be tempted to waste any more time.
The Bullying Pulpit
This was all in response to an article about yet another well-respected Christian leader and author being threatened by his publishing house and having all his speaking engagements canceled because he said in an interview that he would perform a same-sex marriage.
Here are the words of Reverend Eugene Peterson that shook the evangelical’s pulpits:
“I know a lot of people who are gay and lesbian and they seem to have as good a spiritual life as I do. I think that kind of debate about lesbians and gays might be over.”
Heresy! You will never publish or speak publicly again!
Within a day, Peterson had been bullied into retracting his words and repenting of his momentary slip into love.
Here is a recent piece about the hub-bub by one of my favorite bloggers, John Pavlovitz, whom I got to hear speak at the Wild Goose Festival last week. He concludes:
“I can only keep working to make American Christianity a place of love for everyone. Meanwhile I’ll lament Eugene Peterson’s public change of heart because of what it says, perhaps not as much about him, as about my faith tradition’s sickness, about the way it has lost the plot, about the pain it causes.
Most of all I’ll grieve the damage still being done to beautiful people, simply trying to walk this planet without having to fear religious people.”
“Opinions may be mistaken. Love never is.”
— Harry Emerson Fosdick
Aug 18, 2017 @ 16:56:17
“I blocked her, lest I be tempted to waste any more time.”
Oh how I wish I had your strength to “walk away”…
Isn’t it so funny that a fundamentalist christian’s first response to someone who obviously knows their Bible better than them is to call the more knowledgeable person a liar?
Aug 18, 2017 @ 17:38:37
Well,kinda funny I guess. The crazy thing is, she followed me to my blog! Scroll down in the comments: “do you want to know the truth about what you posted, or are you satisfied with what you believe?” She’s still determined me God’s will for everyone else. Sigh.
Aug 09, 2017 @ 11:55:13
Thanks for this. I grew up gay in the South and didn’t really come out until I was 26 because of it. I am just now beginning to write about it. I still live here, but I just don’t care anymore. The kinds of people I deal with, similar to the lady you mentioned, just don’t affect me anymore.
Aug 09, 2017 @ 12:48:12
Wow – good for you! Coming out can be a real sacrifice, but it gives others the courage to do so, and then people like my little lady will finally realize that they actually know & love actual gay people! God bless you!
Aug 18, 2017 @ 16:59:50
Hey Allen! I had a similar experience. You are not alone as a gay person in Dixie!
Jul 26, 2017 @ 18:13:14
do you want to know the truth about what you posted, or are you satisfied with what you believe?
Jul 28, 2017 @ 12:25:02
I know that God is pleased with what I believe, so I’m good. “May the words of my mouth and the meditations of my heart be acceptable in your sight.”
Jul 24, 2017 @ 10:23:57
Hey, I’ll see you there in Hell, with my Gay friends, too, and we’ll throw a party and love each other anyway.
Jul 24, 2017 @ 10:54:02
Party on!
Jul 23, 2017 @ 20:41:28
I think I need a mop cause my head is about to explode. It just astounds me the level of hatered in the form of religiosity that exists in this country.
Jul 23, 2017 @ 20:47:56
And the “happy housewives” can be the most dangerous ones!
Jul 23, 2017 @ 20:32:40
Well, I’ll eventually join you in “Hell” when I’m older. Being Asexual shouldn’t count, but for some reason, people find more issues with Asexuality than anything else…sigh… I mean, they’ve got me coming AND going….
Jul 23, 2017 @ 20:47:19
Well, if you’re in Slytherin, you’ll end up in hell one way or another!! C ya there!
Jul 23, 2017 @ 21:09:53
We’re not all bad though. I’m not sure what my hell would be- I’m under the impression that each of us would be in a different hell, because each of us is different. So my
Jul 24, 2017 @ 16:22:12
I think that hell has something to do with isolation, being separated from God and from others, so maybe you are on to something about “separate hells.”
Jul 23, 2017 @ 21:11:47
personal hell would be being forced to watch cat videos, fluffy animals, and Donald Trump with clapping in the background.
Jul 23, 2017 @ 17:16:21
I’m sure that’s what the Pharisees thought of Jesus as he was partying with the tax collectors when they saw a prostitute walk into the room. The funny thing was – the tax collectors and prostitutes were at the head of the line to go into heaven – so them and their modern-day counterparts – the LGBTQ community seem like good company to me.
Jul 23, 2017 @ 17:20:46
Any time that Jesus-followers are aligned with money & power & oppressing marginalized folks, something is amiss! Thank you!