My Dad would sit in the kitchen chair, the one with the ripped blue plastic seat cover, and read the newspaper to my Mom while she made dinner: meat loaf or tuna casserole or fish sticks and some kind of frozen veggie — if they were lima beans, they would be burned. He’d turn one page with his good arm and shake it out straight, while holding the other page stationary on the table with his crippled arm.
“Oh for Pete’s sake,” he would mumble, and my mother would say, “What?” Pause. “Frederick, what?” He would finish the story, grunting, and then summarize the latest outrage for her, reading the choice bits out loud. Usually something to do with Democrats.
“Oh for God’s sake,” she would agree, the fresh indignity fueling energetic attacks with the carrot peeler. “I don’t know what this country’s coming to.” (She really did say that, and not infrequently.)
“It’s the communists,” Daddy would say, unless he had finished a glass or two of sherry in which case he would say, “It’s those damn communists,” and mother would say, “Frederick!”
He would lick the thumb of his good hand to get it sticky, turn the next page, shake it smooth, and begin to read the latest from the Sports page.
“Mmmm,” Mom would say, and “Oh my.” But she would be humming and not really listening anymore.
When he got to the comics, he would laugh till he wheezed.
I loved the rustle of the newspaper, the predictable banter, that safe time each evening before the sherry kicked in and “the unpleasantness” started.

I loved to hear my Dad read
Thanks to WordPress for the word prompt: Newspaper
Apr 12, 2016 @ 12:36:19
Engaged all my senses. You can really bring me right into a space and time.
Apr 12, 2016 @ 12:42:22
All my senses were certainly engaged when I wrote it! I don’t think I have thought about that blue plastic chair cover in – oh, 50 years. And there it was, right on top of the memory pile 🙂
Apr 12, 2016 @ 09:39:43
Hi Melanie, This is a wonderful description of your life as a child. I love to see your smiling face sitting next to your dad while he’s reading to you. Biff and I never talked about “the unpleasantness” as perhaps your mom described it. Looking back on my college days with your brother there was a sense that we’d both endured a lot as children. God has redeemed our lives from the pit. I’m continually grateful for that. Thanks for sending such thoughtful postings. Blessings, Ralph
On Mon, Apr 11, 2016 at 9:56 PM, Writing with Spirit wrote:
> melanielynngriffin posted: “My Dad would sit in the kitchen chair, the one > with the ripped blue plastic seat cover, and read the newspaper to my Mom > while she made dinner: meat loaf or tuna casserole or fish sticks and some > kind of frozen veggie — if they were lima beans, they would” >
Apr 12, 2016 @ 10:15:48
Wow, Ralph. I had no idea that he hadn’t talked about all that – guess he was trying to forget it. But in your years visiting my family, I’m sure you experienced some “unpleasantness.” I am also so grateful that the three of them are together now, overflowing with joy. He had a dream about that before he passed away. 🙂
Apr 12, 2016 @ 05:31:12
Good one!
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Apr 12, 2016 @ 10:18:07
I really liked it, too. I don’t usually like those prompts, but in this case, the memory just popped out and wrote itself. This is how memoir should be. No angst, no effort 🙂 Yeah, right!
Apr 12, 2016 @ 05:25:00
What a great father indeed.